Delight vs Disappointment & Why Your Attitude Matters!!

When Delighted by someone or something....life as we know it... is Grand :D We are emotionally complete & fulfilled, while our perfect world continues to spend in peace. We will willingly smile at every passing stranger on the sidewalk, whistle with chirping birds outside, reply to needy friend's txt messages & even opt to cover the tab after the lunch.

However......

When Disappointed by someone or something...........life as we know it is Anarchy :( We are emotionally strained & defected, our once perfect world is now broken & covered with dark misty rain clouds. We can't find the strength to smile, so we avoid eye contact with passing strangers on the sidewalk. We don't see or hear any chirping birds outside. We don't reply to our friend's txt messages, so that once lucky lunch date at Panera Bread is now yesterdays used toilet tissue, flushed down the toilet.

See, WE as people, might CAN'T manipulate any & everything in life, but we CAN control how WE respond to adversity!

True, God/Allah/Buddha or whomever you believe in, made us in their self image, but with attribute restrictions. The single greatest attribute restriction they posse, but what we lack, is full manipulation of life itself. With that being said, I believe this "lacking" of full manipulation, is why we are so easily frustrated when things don't go our way because we need full control of everything & everyone. Ultimately, this simple miscue is why others letting us down...We give people titles they never were & power they never earned in the first place! This prerequisite is also what leads to our egos being brush, which is also the prerequisite to Disappointment.

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But.....Like I previous stated, we Can Control how WE respond to adversity in life itself. Our logical theories & vivid prospectives can help us jump start our day with that redefined energy!! God/Allah/Buddha ect. never intended for us to have ALL OUT power over everything. This is also why, despite our many flaws, America is still a super power after all these years. Our nations power is allocated across several branches, unlike previous super powers in history. From The Roman Empire to Hitler's Germany the lacking of allocation is why they crumbled. Its just in our nature..... to crave for my power! But we weren't created to control everything in the first place!lol Anyway, by us controlling what we CAN, we aren't only barricading negativity from penetrating our brain, but also bettering our life style each & everyday. Positive thing is contagious too because who doesn't want to be associated which Rev. TD Jakes or Billy Gram. Let's face it by surrounding yourself with positive person, it give you a more positive outlook on life which is the ultimate prerequisite to being Delighted!!!





So never give into defeat & never stop believing in yourself! Never stop trying! Never stop fighting because WE as people, might CAN'T manipulate any & everything in life, but we CAN control how WE handle adversity.

So are you delighted or disappointed by this Blog entry?? Lol decide for yourself

Thanks for reading

BSim