Happy Relationships will birth Happy Marriage, but.......ONLY

HAPPILY EVER AFTER is the ultimate dream for us as people. We all want that “house on a hill” with the green grass and puppies running all over the yard. We all want that ideal companion holding our hand during the day, while rocking us to sleep at night. We all want the ideal family that consist of, but isn’t limited to: Man, Woman, Child/Children and Pet. Working during our weekdays, while enjoying our weekend is the ideal work schedule for us all, but what does it take to even get to this level and does this “ideal world” even exist??!!!

With that being said, US as men must be willing to first answer these next few questions honesty and must be willing to make adequate adjustments accordingly; they are 1) We must build our worth as promising men,  but are we willing to strive for personal growth every day? 2) We are fast to criticize others, but are we able to handle criticism ourselves? 3) The pretty woman is preferred, but why are we fast to QUEEN these worthless women [gold digging lazy women], when there are countless beautiful smart princesses out here already waiting for us to QUEEN them? 4) (For those that this apply to) Why not be fathers to our children, when we are the ones that brought them here in the first place?! *Hint: they didn’t ask to be born.

But it goes both ways so.....

LADIES...word on the streets is that a GOOD MAN is hard to find, but ladies, 1) if you aren't happy with yourselves, what makes you believe you'll be able to bring happiness to a man's life? 2) If you're too stubborn to admit to wrong or reach out for his love, what makes you believe you'll bring happiness to a man's life? 3) If you aren't willing to NEGOTIATE..what makes you believe you'll make someone a happy WIFE??? 5) (For those that this applies to) If a man wants to see his child, yet he doesn’t want to be with you, why keep him from his child because you still hold that personal grudge?*Hint: You’re only hurting yourself because that children will go searching for the truth one day. I know people that are in this dilemma now.

In conclusion, these questions will not guarantee us LOVE or the Perfect marriage, but I do believe that they’ll put you in better position to meet that “ideal” companion, but only if we are willing to honesty answer these few questions. Will you and your family live in that “house on a green hill with the child/children and pets? HAHA that all depends on you and your companion’s work ethic!! :D Look I’m not a relationship expect, not even trying to be, but I do ask tons of questions, which is where these questions derived from.

Thanks for reading...

BSim